There are times when a girl will test you to see how you respond. This is usually a make or break deal, answer wrong and you lose her interest, answer correctly and gain her attraction. Most guys are completely unaware that they’re failing in all these tests, or that they’re even being tested! Here is one type of test that I would get, first i’ll show you how most guys reply the wrong way.
Wrong way:
Her: “So Cesar, are there any cute girls here?”
Me: “Yeah… you.” (or anything like that)
She is basically indirectly asking you if you like her. You just laid out all your cards and the game is over… You don’t show that you have confidence by letting her know that you like her. Anyone can do that, all the other lames guys before you have told her the same thing! Test FAILED. Don’t be surprised if she doesn’t react to you the same way after that, maybe that has already happened to you. Here is what an attractive man would say…
Right way:
Her: “So Cesar, are there any cute girls here?”
Me: [direct eye contact] “Is that your way of trying to fish a compliment from me?”
This shows her that you know whats going on, and your uncovering what she’s trying to do. It also leaves her confused, because in a way I was implying that she is cute but shes not sure of it. When women are confused about something like this they will analyze it over and over. You can be sure that she will be thinking of you for quite a while. Here’s another way you can respond.
Right way:
Her: “So Cesar, are there any cute girls here?”
Me: “Yeah, that girl over there looks okay… and her over there, shes kinda cute.”
Wait a second Cesar, isn’t she going to think that your not interested in her? Yeah, thats exactly the point! Say that anyone is cute, except her! Most guys think that you will lose a girl by saying something like this, when exactly the opposite happens. You will notice later that she will try harder to get your attention. Here is another way in which you can flip things on her.
Right way:
Her: “So Cesar, are there any cute girls here?”
Me: “There’s cute girls every where. We should try to find you a guy though, what about him? He is perfect for you!” (point out an ugly guy)
It may seem like the ways to attract a woman is counter-productive right? Why would you suggest to her that she should date some other guy if you’re the one interested in her? When you don’t care about her, and even kinda push her away, it makes her WANT to get your attention. Women want what they can’t have. Here is one more similar test that I would get. First, how to do things the wrong way…
Wrong way:
Her: “You should come to my party, there’s going to be a lot of cute girls there.”
Me: “Yeah but you will probably be the cutest girl there.” (or anything similar to this crap)
I’m already cringing just having to write this… Here is how to reply to that in a way that you convey that looks are not the most important thing and that you have higher standards.
Right way:
Her: “You should come to my party, there’s going to be a lot of cute girls there.”
Me: “Cute isn’t enough. Are they fun, outgoing, and smart too?”
Women don’t want to feel that you only like them for their good looks. They want to be loved for who they are, not only by outward appearances. It shows that personality is also important for you, and that you won’t settle for less.